Haha you wrote with great emotion and humor . The truth is that flowers have their own language and their colors convey different messages. Red roses often represent romantic love and that's why they are widely used during Valentine's Day. It's a way to say "I love you" without even saying a word.

But pink roses don't mean anything bad at all. In fact, they mean gentle gratitude and respect. So giving your mother pink roses is a great idea because she deserves all the gratitude for her constant love .

And as for your lover, don't be too afraid. If he doesn't have any knowledge of the meaning of flower colors, you can explain it to him gently. At the end of the day, what matters is your sincere intention and the love you show through those flowers. Flowers are a gift from the heart .

I used to give my elder sister red roses during her birthday, however, one time she told me she prefers pink roses. For her, they are lovely so in her next birthday, I will give her a bouquet of pink roses. She will surely feel she's on Cloud 9.