Any man that wants a big wedding is a financial red flag for me.

[Fidelia]

I am someone that would really consider financial orientation and financial intelligence before agreeing to marry someone.

With present financial realities, if a man that is not a millionaire in dollars desires to have a big wedding, that is a financial red flag for me.

 

[Suba]

Of course, for people like me in the lower middle class, a big wedding is an extreme waste, and may even require debt. So, for someone like me, a simple but festive wedding is preferable.