Can you really refuse someone to assistance?

[deucher]

Although it's occasionally inefficient for me to waste time on something that someone could do on their own, I have never refused to help someone who asks for it. Since I will eventually require their assistance as well, should I start refusing now or should I just stay decent and comply with their requests?

 

[freelancermaria]

The answer to whether I help someone or not depends on the situation and the person involved. I do not always assist people, especially those who take advantage of my kindness or have a history of doing so.

 

[eLdavis]

If I can help, of if I have the means to help I we definitely help out.

 

[deucher]

The answer to whether I help someone or not depends on the situation and the person involved. I do not always assist people, especially those who take advantage of my kindness or have a history of doing so.

I have such moments, although I sometimes helped people who did not perceive my kindness, but over time they became ashamed that they treat me badly and I still help them, so they stopped asking for help

 

[magnus2022]

Although it's occasionally inefficient for me to waste time on something that someone could do on their own, I have never refused to help someone who asks for it. Since I will eventually require their assistance as well, should I start refusing now or should I just stay decent and comply with their requests?

It depends on the situation at hand. I do refuse to help some people due to a lot of reasons especially when the help will put my time and work on jeopardy. I also refuse some people to help me especially when they are grossly incompetent and will affect my productivity.