Do kids ever reimburse us or is the financial burden forever

[Fire&Rain]

Many parents hope that once children finish university and start working, they can contribute back financially. Some do, helping with household expenses or supporting younger siblings, which eases the parents’ burden. However, not all children find work immediately, and some may struggle with employment even after graduating.In such cases, parents may continue supporting adult children, sometimes for years. This raises questions about boundaries, responsibility, and long-term planning. It’s a delicate balance between helping your children succeed and not jeopardizing your own financial stability.

Even when children are independent, parents may choose to support them occasionally, for emergencies, health, or other needs. This ongoing dynamic can affect retirement planning, savings, and lifestyle choices. Discussing expectations early and creating a plan for independence can help. Ultimately, the financial responsibility of children doesn’t always end at adulthood. Parents must consider possibilities like unemployment, health issues, or other challenges that may require continued support. Preparing financially for these scenarios can reduce stress and ensure both parents and children thrive. How have you handled the financial responsibilities for grown children, especially if they struggle to find work or become independent, and what strategies have helped maintain balance in your family finances?

 

[Kera]

The joy and satisfaction of a responsible parent is to see his kids responsible and financially independent. That's all. Nothing they want in return.