Do not over- promise only to fail

[Starmix]

It is crucial to deliver a promise to someone only to fail. Imagine the person’s reaction and the dismal feelings he or she may not avoid. Observe a child, once you fail a promise that child will sob aloud and shout out you are a liar. It takes time for the mom to pacify the child by telling another lie and how much more to a mature person being promised, there will be a misunderstanding despite your reason is valid. It is also hard to repair a heart broken because of a failed promise. The pain felt seems eternal so it is better not to promise but rather surprise the person. It is important to note that good connection is essential, that is how to build resilience of a relationship or friendship.

 

[eLdavis]

One thing I hate is to promise what I know I won't fulfill. If I know I won't be able to continue, I won't even make an attempt to promise it.

 

[Starmix]

I also never promise if it's hard to fulfill. I also do not like to promise. I am afraid I cannot make it especially about love. I never promise to accept a proposed love of a guy.