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Do you allow your wife to keep your money earned from your investment?

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In my opinion, it's not advisable for the wife to keep the money earned from your investment.Money is temptation, who knows your wife will be tempted to buy personal things despite not essential. You may wake up one day money no more. It's better to give her the amount necessary for the family in a. week. Well, anyway you know better your wife's attitude. I'm saying this because it happens to the family of my cousin. It was the wife who keeps the investment money. It turns out she wasted the money with her insignificant one. It's better to be smart.
 
from my point of view , decisions about managing finances are personal and should be mutually agreed upon in a relationship. Open communication and shared decision-making are key to a healthy financial partnership
 
I hope not every woman behaves like this, if the investment results are in the form of fiat money such as the results of renting a car or house, of course I will give it to my wife as a gift, but if the money from the investment results of stocks or crypto is still stored in the customer's fund account while for crypto in the form of stablecoins stored in the wallet.
 
Yes we can discuss on certain things on how the money should be spent but there are till some personal things I might want to do myself.
It's better to wait for the decision of the spouse anyway he knows his responsibility in case he is the only bread winner in the family. The control is with him.
 
A proper discussion is vital between the husband and wife to avoid malicious thinking of the wife for not having known the income of her husband. Though the wife does not have control of the money, at least she should be informed how much the husband gained in his investment to be fair.
 
I would not agitate to hold or manage the finances of my partner unless he invites me into it. He should just take financially responsible.
 
It s natural for the wife to know the income of the husband from his investment but there is no guarantee that she be allowed to manage it because as an investor, anytime in a day, he could invest and the capital must be within his reach, so the wife may only have some thousands to hold for their daily needs.
 
It is normal to let the money keep some amount for the family's expenses especially if the wife if a pure housewife. She willl fell sad and worried if she keeps on asking. It should be auto giving of the proceeds from the investment or salary of the husband.
 
If in case I marry someday, I will not insist on my husband to manage his finances from his investment. I just wait for his instructions to avoid troubles.
Your decision is wise one. A lot of relationships crash because of financial misunderstanding. A lot of women want to control their partners especially when it comes to managing finances.
 
If the husband's salary is above the average standard of living in his city, if the wife still asks for returns from investments that must be cashed and withdrawn, not reinvested to create a larger compound, then what about when capital loss occurs,
 
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