Family quarrel

[Starmix]

Was there a time your family quarreled about something? My sister was a quarrelsome type and she got on everybody's nerves at home, She kept on complaining about food. She is also a choosy type in terms of food. Our father got mad sometimes but he just pretended about the quarrels. Does it also happen in your family? Who resolves the issue of the cause of the quarrel?

 

[Alberello75]

Well that it has always happened in my family and still happens today. I must say that our parents always scolded us for trying to get me and my brother in the right direction for our life, as an important thing, having a job. Instead, unfortunately for us we didn't! Anyway , I have to say about this topic that I have had many difficulties, as I am a mentally disabled person. In fact, nowadays we find ourselves adults still at home and still mantained by our parents who now are elderly and also sick. Moreover now, due to that episode that you know, I am living in a critical moment, and I still don't know what conclusions this act may have. In prediction, we risk that one day my brother and I may find ourselves adults (just for not to say elderly) in conditions of absolute poverty. Life is conditioned by personal choices and sometimes these are wrong!

 

[riberet19]

In my family we have had some fights, but none of them were very strong and without much importance, I think the last one I remember years ago was about housework, but well, I no longer live with them so I don't witness them that often.

 

[Starmix]

I think it's normal in a family to have some fights sometimes but that happens when we're kids. For grownups, seldom having a fight but arguments are always observed. It is resolved right away when one cries.

 

[Alberello75]

Quarrels and discussions in my opinione are normal issues when there is a group of two or more people, this in any context, not just family. This is because, no one is perfect and sometimes or often, ideas are conflicting. But it is very important that these quarrels do not lead to episodes of violence! When instead there is no arguing or quarrel, it means that there is one person dominant who orders and commands while the other is a subject submissive that always nods (ever for fear of entering in conflict because feels inferior). This is something definitely worse!​

 

[eLdavis]

We have had our share of arguments as well, most times it's about how the food was managed, other times it's about who gets to do certain things and the likes.

 

[Starmix]

It is normal to have some quarrels at home, it is only temporary and rarely happens. It also does not last for a day. It lasts only some hours with the intervention of our parents and elder sister or brother.

 

[Kirubel]

Now my brother is acting like that; he was watching too much TikTok, and those Sigma Boy groups have got into his mind, and he's trying to be like them, and we don't like the way he acts, talks, and communicates with us.

 

[Augusta]

Yeah we used to have but it was a mild one. We always disagree to agree a lot of times. It wasn't a permanent thing

 

[Starmix]

It's normal to have a quarrelling mood at home. It's not everyday. At home once a year. But kids almost everyday

 

[Augusta]

Yes kids will always be kids. We just have to ignore them and their tantrums

 

[Starmix]

The kids usually quarrel on toys, new dresses, food, and allowance. They look cute and need attention.

 

[Alberello75]

even in quarrels, the issue must always be balanced. After all, normally people come to an argument in order to later reach an agreement.

 

[Starmix]

That's so right but for kids their young minds cannot resolve simple things but for nature people, they want to resolve something for fairness or justice.

 

[deucher]

I think I was such a person in the family like your sister, but I don't know why I was like that, maybe I just didn't have enough attention. Most often, it was my mother who resolved such quarrels

 

[freelancermaria]

It is normal to have disagreements within a family. However, it is essential to resolve them quickly and not let them linger. So, when everyone has cooled down, it is best to patch things up and move forward together.

 

[Starmix]

It is normal for a family to experience quarrels. Whenever it happens, it must not let the anger stay the whole day. The two must settle their conflicts before the sun sets.