Hating people makes too much energy; I must pretend they’re dead

[Starmix]

Harboring hatred towards others can be emotionally draining and mentally exhausting. The constant negativity consumes valuable energy that could be better spent on productive pursuits and personal growth. Instead of dwelling on resentment, it is more beneficial to adopt a strategy of emotional detachment. By mentally disengaging from those who cause your harm, you can create a buffer that protects your peace of mind. This doesn’t necessarily mean wishing ill upon them, but rather choosing to focus your attention and energy elsewhere.

You'd better pretend they’re dead. Pretending they're dead is a metaphorical way of saying that you are cutting off the emotional connection and refusing to give them any more power over your thoughts or feelings.

This approach allows you to conserve energy, maintain a positive mindset, and invest your time in relationships and activities that uplift you. Ultimately, emotional well-being is crucial for success and happiness, and letting go of hatred is a key step in achieving that.

 

[freelancermaria]

Just ignore their existence to have a more peaceful life. This is what I usually do to reduce stress and anxiety, and it helps.

 

[eLdavis]

To hate is draining, i just simply move on, i can't focus on hating you, that's just too stressful for me.

 

[Starmix]

Indeed, that's also what I observe, that when there is someone I hate, I feel drained and never like to work. What I did, I no longer think about the person as existing.