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Entering the world of family life (marriage) does not mean we will enter the world of happiness, in their lives money is often an obstacle or a big problem in the harmony of their household. So in my opinion the main problem with finances is not a large income but not having an open attitude or not being honest about how much your husband's salary/income is. or one of the partners cannot change their mindset, life is always wasteful, etc. So what do you think? What is included in the red flag of household finances?
 
If the couple does not plan for their future there is a time that money will be put to waste because they lack the orientation about the importance of savings. They only see the present, the wasteful days because their mindsets are not diverted well to the bright side of their marriage lives.
 
Starmix said:
If the couple does not plan for their future there is a time that money will be put to waste because they lack the orientation about the importance of savings. They only see the present, the wasteful days because their mindsets are not diverted well to the bright side of their marriage lives.
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Exactly, one of the red flags in a household is uncontrolled spending, couples generally don't have a plan to just spend their income/salary every month, in fact their income is often not sufficient to meet their monthly needs, so conflicts and other problems will often occur. which are more risky, such as debt.
 
Suba said:
Exactly, one of the red flags in a household is uncontrolled spending, couples generally don't have a plan to just spend their income/salary every month, in fact their income is often not sufficient to meet their monthly needs, so conflicts and other problems will often occur. which are more risky, such as debt.
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They only like to enjoy now and suffer later. That kind of marriage with red flag will never end to eternity. They have a care free lives and that happens if marry young, not ready to embrace responsibility.
 
Starmix said:
They only like to enjoy now and suffer later. That kind of marriage with red flag will never end to eternity. They have a care free lives and that happens if marry young, not ready to embrace responsibility.
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Many of them get married young, even after graduating from high school they get married straight away, just working as online motorbike drivers. meaning they are without adequate financial preparation.
 
Suba said:
Many of them get married young, even after graduating from high school they get married straight away, just working as online motorbike drivers. meaning they are without adequate financial preparation.
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That's also happening in my place here married at a young and their financial lives are sinking to the bones. They lack parental guidance.
 
Suba said:
Entering the world of family life (marriage) does not mean we will enter the world of happiness, in their lives money is often an obstacle or a big problem in the harmony of their household. So in my opinion the main problem with finances is not a large income but not having an open attitude or not being honest about how much your husband's salary/income is. or one of the partners cannot change their mindset, life is always wasteful, etc. So what do you think? What is included in the red flag of household finances?
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Running a family needs money therefore when a person is capable of running a family or bear the expenses of at least two person, he should then think of getting married. The woman can work but that becomes difficult when there are children.
 
aninditasen said:
Running a family needs money therefore when a person is capable of running a family or bear the expenses of at least two person, he should then think of getting married. The woman can work but that becomes difficult when there are children.
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I really agree with your opinion, to run a business you need money. The main problem or red flag is that many husbands are not open about how much they earn, or have wrong priorities in using money, such as lending money to friends too easily even though the kitchen is a mess.
 
This is because for example having children means that you may face some problems. The first problem is that there is big probability they meat bad friends on school or colleague that leads to drug addiction, that means they will start stealth of money to compensate drugs needs what happens to many families nowadays.
 
saoussen5765 said:
This is because for example having children means that you may face some problems. The first problem is that there is big probability they meat bad friends on school or colleague that leads to drug addiction, that means they will start stealth of money to compensate drugs needs what happens to many families nowadays.
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Young people who are addicted to drugs will of course spend their parents' wealth, this is a very serious problem, no longer a red flag, but a bomb that can destroy the entire house.
 
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