Marriage breaks down because of poor living conditions

[Starmix]

It is a tough situation, breaking up a marriage because of a poor life situation. How difficult would it be for the involved couple suffering from too much poverty? They may lack resources and connection, which is why their marriage failed.

Understandably, they might have felt useless about the future, especially when facing all the time, financial hardship and unemployment, which can put immense pressure on a relationship should neither of them have a job.

It sounds like the decision of the couple stemmed from a place of deep-seated fear and uncertainty about providing for themselves and potentially a family. It is heartbreaking to see a marriage end like this, but it highlights the immense stress poverty and joblessness can create.

In your case, what can you suggest to avoid the marriage from ending this way?

 

[Springtime]

Yes, poverty may lead to marriage failure. If the couple has to worry about money all the time, and always argue on issues about money, the relationship will be ruined.

 

[eLdavis]

Yes i have seen cases like this so many times. At the end of the day marriage is not something you should jump into if you are not sure about your financial situation.

 

[Fire&Rain]

Very true. I think the best way to avoid such is to be in a marriage with someone who is afraid of poverty like you are. That way both of you are always brainstorming ways of making more together.

 

[Starmix]

Poverty must not be feared by the couple. They can approach elders who can suggest something to avoid breakup. Being jobless is not also one culprit why break the marriage Why not find work and never choose what kind it is as long as legal and you are paid. Gradually the couple can improve their living condition through their love, understanding, and hard work. There's nothing impossible as long as the couple believed in the power of their love and commitment witnessed by God.

 

[freelancermaria]

Poverty can certainly lead to the breakdown of a marriage. Married couples often find themselves arguing about money and how to make ends meet. It is vital for them to come up with a plan and take action to address their financial challenges.

 

[Starmix]

Marriage is not a one day thing, it is better to stabilize their finances before facing the challenges in marriage. It's crucial to marry without money to support their daily needs. They must have the resources while they tackle life with children. Without a stable finances, marriage is crucial to thrive.

 

[Augusta]

Financial strain, lack of space, and unequal distribution of household responsibilities can all put pressure on a relationship, leading to resentment, decreased intimacy, and ultimately, divorce.

 

[Starmix]

Many marriages broken because of financial hardships. They opted to go back to their ostegts to show remorse and regret for marrying young and financially unstable.

 

[Nomad]

Money is a great thing that helps you to build a stable relationship, and a healthy marital relationship

 

[Starmix]

Before marrying, it is essential for the two individuals to be financially and mentally prepared. If only the man has a job, the woman must avoid extravagance to avoid conflicts that may cause a marriage breakup.

 

[Alberello75]

Unfortunately, these days, marital failure due to poverty is all too common. However, another factor must also be considered: often, the failure of a relationship also occurs due to poor communication between the two people.

 

[Augusta]

Yes lack of money and poor living conditions can lead to increased stress, arguments, and a decline in overall marital satisfaction.

 

[Starmix]

There are marriages that thrive despite their poor living condition. They never give up to find means to change the picture of the financial situation. Breaking up seems not the solution but proper and constant communication.

 

[Augusta]

While financial hardship and poor living conditions can put a strain on a marriage, they are not the sole or primary cause of divorce.

 

[Starmix]

It is better for the couple to talk about their problem and how it shall be solved. They have to talk calmly to avoid misunderstanding.