Physical attraction is not love.

[aninditasen]

People usually fall in love due to physical attraction. When a person is beautiful/ handsome their opposite sex gets easily attracted towards them. This is natural but this is not love. A strong feeling of concern and personal involvement has to be there for love to grow and be permanent.

 

[AruneBend]

it is very common these days and I agree with you love is when you love everything about someone not only how they look

 

[Starmix]

If we're attracted to someone because of his or appearance, it's just attraction, not love. Love is felt and built basing on sincerity, kind heart, awesome caring and bottomless loving.

 

[aninditasen]

If we're attracted to someone because of his or appearance, it's just attraction, not love. Love is felt and built basing on sincerity, kind heart, awesome caring and bottomless loving.

That's true. That's what most people don't understand. They fall for looks and money and forget good character counts a lot in true love.

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it is very common these days and I agree with you love is when you love everything about someone not only how they look

It was common years back too. I was selected by my husband because he liked my looks.

 

[Starmix]

That's true. That's what most people don't understand. They fall for looks and money and forget good character counts a lot in true love.

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It was common years back too. I was selected by my husband because he liked my looks.

I prefer on good character. That's how love is developed if the person is kind, caring thoughtful, loving and faithful. Good looks are deceiving.

 

[eLdavis]

Very true, often times people tend to mistake physical attraction as love. True love is also grounded in friendship. You can truly love someone when you know nothing about them.

 

[aninditasen]

I prefer on good character. That's how love is developed if the person is kind, caring thoughtful, loving and faithful. Good looks are deceiving.

Even I wanted that but youngsters nowadays don't bother about character but attraction and specifically money.

 

[FoxyLady73]

Intense physical attraction can make you feel as if you are in love when in many cases it is just lust. However, that doesn't mean it can't turn to love. When the honeymoon period is over that's when a relationship is tested. If the attraction was purely physical then it will probably fizzle out.

 

[aninditasen]

Very true, often times people tend to mistake physical attraction as love. True love is also grounded in friendship. You can truly love someone when you know nothing about them.

That's possible. It's a strange kind of feeling that you experience for someone you love.

 

[freelancermaria]

Yes, it is only infatuation. Hehehe. Some people value looks. They pursue that individual because he or she is attractive, without first learning about his or her interests, what makes him or her happy, and so on. Know that beauty fades with time, but a good heart endures forever. When you're in a serious relationship, his or her appearance is irrelevant. When he or she is attractive but has a terrible personality, the relationship may not survive long. The time will come when you will get fed up with his or her behavior.

 

[aninditasen]

Yes, it is only infatuation. Hehehe. Some people value looks. They pursue that individual because he or she is attractive, without first learning about his or her interests, what makes him or her happy, and so on. Know that beauty fades with time, but a good heart endures forever. When you're in a serious relationship, his or her appearance is irrelevant. When he or she is attractive but has a terrible personality, the relationship may not survive long. The time will come when you will get fed up with his or her behavior.

I infatuation doesn't last for long. However true love lasts forever.

 

[Starmix]

Many became victims of attraction not love. Love is beautiful. I once felt a love that's from the bottom of my heart not from attraction, but my love cheats and that's because of art attraction towards me only. What a shame feeling axed.