Raise your words not your voice, it is rain that grows flowers, not thunder

[Starmix]

Let us do it not to raise our words, but our voice, it is rain that grows flowers, not thunder. The rain just pours incessantly while thunder roars and people feel afraid. But the fear does not bear fruit to the lands only the rain that lets plants bear flowers to bear fruits at the right time.

It is the same with your actions in your family being the head. If you always raise your voice to them, there is constant fear, and their love for you will never grow or developed but hatred for being cruel. Raise only your words to your family to instill to them what is best for their future and how to help you in the coming years when they are old enough to support you back.

 

[eLdavis]

What we should aim for is for people to respect us and not fear us. When we are always shouting at those around us, it would lead to people simply fearing us.

 

[Starmix]

That is the outcome of fear refusal to accept the person who's brutal to his family. Some parents are hostile to theit children who are innocent and helpless. I hate it.

 

[freelancermaria]

Some parents are always fast to raise their voices and unwilling to have calm, understanding conversations. They tend to believe they are always right, which makes children afraid to express themselves. Hence, children end up suppressing their emotions and growing up feeling anxious and depressed because they believe no one will pay attention to them.

 

[Starmix]

The kids feel helpless being dependent on their parents and they cannot offend them or else they will be kicked out and live on the streets. The kids are very much affected and it is not their fault why they were born. It is so sad, pitiful, kids.