When do you say "N0" to financial request from friends and family?

[Fidelia]

We always have to be there for our friends and family, especially when they are going through financial challenges. At which point would you say "No" to family and friends even when you have the money they arel looking for?

 

[gwolf666]

Personally, I believe that helping family and friends in difficult times is essential, but there's a limit. Generosity shouldn't become a constant obligation that jeopardizes our financial or emotional stability. I think one must set clear boundaries and be honest about what they can and can't do. For example, if someone asks for help and it compromises my own plans or well-being, I have to learn to say no without feeling guilty. True help involves not only giving money but also offering emotional support and advice. I believe there's a point at which helping becomes unsustainable, and at that moment, it's important to prioritize our own needs and responsibilities. The key is finding a balance between being supportive and taking care of ourselves, because otherwise, we end up exhausted and unable to continue supporting those we love.

 

[King Belieal]

I say no to financial requests from my family members when I am in a stringent financial position. I have to fix myself first, and handle their financial request later.

 

[Augusta]

When the request become incessant. You just have to step back and tell them you can't help at that point

 

[Trush Jodie]

When the request become incessant. You just have to step back and tell them you can't help at that point

Some family members don't feel any guilt. They can ask you for money five times in a month and expect you to give them every time.

 

[Suba]

Although I personally have to help those in need, whether I know them or not, when someone, be it a friend or family member, asks for money to gamble, buy alcohol, or do other negative activities, I immediately refuse. This is the time to say no.

 

[Nomad]

If I don't have money, I will say no, if I don't trust the person, I will also openly say no for financial assistance

 

[eLdavis]

In situations where you don't have the money to help or support, it's best you simply say no than giving promises you won't be able to fulfill.

 

[Min George]

If the money that I have is meant to solve a pressing need for myself, so would say no to financial requests from family and friends.

 

[Springtime]

If I have a tight budget myself, I will say no. Also, if the friend or family member always have this request, and have a bad record of repayment, I will reject his/her request.

 

[Augusta]

Some family members don't feel any guilt. They can ask you for money five times in a month and expect you to give them every time.

This one is just absurd. I would only help each person once in a very long time. I don't like anyone putting me under pressure