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When mistrust comes in, love goes out

Starmix

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It is important to trust someone we love, but if mistrust comes in, love surely flies away. That means your trust in the person is 50/50 and that person you love will feel discouraged for not trusting him. But if there is solid evidence, then no one can blame you. There are people down to earth when in love and so suddenly that love feels insulted when you are judged as a wrong person or love wrong despite no concrete evidence and that loses the feelings. The best solution for that is communication that will lead to commitment.
 
It's better to stop the relationship if trust is gone. There will be constant fight because of jealousy for example though there's no truth behind the rumor or gossip. It's better to have separate ways.
 
Starmix said:
It is important to trust someone we love, but if mistrust comes in, love surely flies away. That means your trust in the person is 50/50 and that person you love will feel discouraged for not trusting him. But if there is solid evidence, then no one can blame you. There are people down to earth when in love and so suddenly that love feels insulted when you are judged as a wrong person or love wrong despite no concrete evidence and that loses the feelings. The best solution for that is communication that will lead to commitment.
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You have spoken my mind out. My husband unnecessarily doubted my character. This was cause of our communication gap. It took me long to normalize our relationship.
 
aninditasen said:
You have spoken my mind out. My husband unnecessarily doubted my character. This was cause of our communication gap. It took me long to normalize our relationship.
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OMG, sorry to hear about your ordeal but happy to know your reconciled after some trials of your marriage.
 
Some people do not like to open up their sentiments so they are also misunderstood and that is one factor why trust isn't eternal because communication is very limited. They have to talk to resolve something conflicting.
 
Trust is one of the meager bond that hold any relationship strong, and if that bond breaks and lost then the relationship is in risk of ending up, and even if it stays for some time the end is break up and not trusting our partner is the first sign that the relationship is in danger. even a small mistrust is bad.
 
When trust is ruined we can never expect it to be restored that's why we need to be a person with dignity, true to our words and action. People can see through their eyes the actions that provoke mistrusting.
 
Starmix said:
When trust is ruined we can never expect it to be restored that's why we need to be a person with dignity, true to our words and action. People can see through their eyes the actions that provoke mistrusting.
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True, we need to be like our words, and we need to respect the word that we give to our partner when we first meet, it is better to respect the person who trusts us.
 
freelancermaria said:
Yes, trust is the foundation of any relationship. Without it, your relationship will not work. I have a hard time trusting people and it something that I want to change eventually. LOL
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I agree with you, trust should be cemented in any relationship without that such a relationship would be a mess.
 
Kirubel said:
True, we need to be like our words, and we need to respect the word that we give to our partner when we first meet, it is better to respect the person who trusts us.
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It is not good to mistrust someone without valid evidence that he or she was doing wrong. It is better to wait for the right time to prove your suspicion right.
 
Starmix said:
It is not good to mistrust someone without valid evidence that he or she was doing wrong. It is better to wait for the right time to prove your suspicion right.
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Yeah, a person needs to have a full evidence that their partner have a problem and are seeing others before starting to lose trust for them.
 
Kirubel said:
Yeah, a person needs to have a full evidence that their partner have a problem and are seeing others before starting to lose trust for them.
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That's right, communication is the best to do to clear the misunderstanding. It's not good to judge and conclude right away.
 
Starmix said:
That's right, communication is the best to do to clear the misunderstanding. It's not good to judge and conclude right away.
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Yes,, if we conclude and judge a person without a proper evidence and if things were lie and not true we will be sad and disappointed when we found our that the person we accused was innocent person.
 
Kirubel said:
Yes,, if we conclude and judge a person without a proper evidence and if things were lie and not true we will be sad and disappointed when we found our that the person we accused was innocent person.
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Exactly, it is not good to judge so trust remains and there is no one to get hurt from a wrong accusation, baseless judgment is wrong. We have to be very carefull.
 
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Suba said:
Love is built on trust, so if trust is lost, love is lost too, the most important trust is loyalty, then there is no apology if a partner cheats with another man.
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Indeed, there is no forgiveness granted to a cheater. That person may laugh at us and think we're dumb. Love flies away and trust never comes back.
 
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