Why is it hard to get love?

[Starmix]

Why is it hard to get love? This is really insightful question, and it touches on something many people experience. There isn't one single answer, as the reasons why love can be hard to find are complex and multifaceted, varying greatly from person to person. However, there are key factors and one is personal barriers which include unrealistic expectations. Society often portrays the idealized image of love, which can lead to unrealistic expectations and disappointment when reality doesn't match up. Perfectionism and a tendency to focus on flaws can also hinder finding love.

 

[eLdavis]

One reason why it's hard to find love these days is that people are no longer willing to sacrifice, especially in this generation. No one wants to show their vulnerability, no one wants to show their weak side or make sacrifices.

 

[Starmix]

One reason why it's hard to find love these days is that people are no longer willing to sacrifice, especially in this generation. No one wants to show their vulnerability, no one wants to show their weak side or make sacrifices.

That is true and another reason behind it is they hate to sacrifice. They do not like to experience sacrificial love. They just want to play love, not to take it seriously. It is like enjoying now and suffering later.

 

[eLdavis]

That is true and another reason behind it is they hate to sacrifice. They do not like to experience sacrificial love. They just want to play love, not to take it seriously. It is like enjoying now and suffering later.

Exactly, there is no true love without one sort of sacrifice or the other. But people today are not willing to make these sacrifices. They have a selfish love.

 

[Starmix]

Exactly, there is no true love without one sort of sacrifice or the other. But people today are not willing to make these sacrifices. They have a selfish love.

Yes that is so true like the love for our family. We are willing to sacrifice for our family and we do it without mental reservation and that is because of love. Love for the family is deep compared to a love towards our opposite sex. It can die in split seconds because of betrayal.

 

[eLdavis]

That's the world we live in today, at the end of the day though, real love still exist out there, and once you find it,it's best you hold it well.

 

[Starmix]

Real love towards the opposite sex seems not anymore existing. It needs ample years to observe the person if committed and honest. There are so many out there untrustworthy.

 

[freelancermaria]

For some people, it can be difficult to experience love because of the traumatic experiences they’ve had in previous relationships. They may be afraid to fall in love again, and we can’t blame them for feeling this way. It might take a long time for them to heal and move on.

 

[Starmix]

Some people stick to their principle not to fall in love again after the first cheat. They do not like to suffer heartaches and insults. They prefer to remain single forever than to repeat the same experience.

 

[eLdavis]

Real love towards the opposite sex seems not anymore existing. It needs ample years to observe the person if committed and honest. There are so many out there untrustworthy.

True, it is becoming really hard, both genders no longer trust one another, hence even when one is showing genuine love the other might not believe.

 

[Starmix]

True, it is becoming really hard, both genders no longer trust one another, hence even when one is showing genuine love the other might not believe.

That happens once trust is gone. The victim of betrayal is hard to convince. He is not anymore the same person he used to be after the cheats.

 

[eLdavis]

That happens once trust is gone. The victim of betrayal is hard to convince. He is not anymore the same person he used to be after the cheats.

That's right and these days people don't want to even get hurt before they start having trust issues. You see a person that has never dated anyone before being scared to date simply because of all the things they have been hearing.

 

[Starmix]

That's right and these days people don't want to even get hurt before they start having trust issues. You see a person that has never dated anyone before being scared to date simply because of all the things they have been hearing.

The heart of the victim becomes hard as a stone and the fear of experiencing pain again is extremely dominant than the acceptance of the next love.