Why is love hard to get?

[Starmix]

Why is love hard to get? It is a big question pondered by poets, philosophers, and everyone else for ages. It is true that finding love can be challenging, but maybe it is not so much about getting loved as it is about finding the right kind of love. It is like looking for a specific kind of flower- you might have to search a bit to find one that’s just right for you.

What makes you think love is hard to get? Is it the uncertainty of finding someone special? The fear of rejection? or maybe the effort it takes to build a relationship. I am curious to hear about your thoughts.

 

[eLdavis]

One of the reasons why love is hard, especially in this our generation is that people are mostly after what they can get. Their love is based on benefits. Once there is no benefits the love disappears.

 

[Starmix]

One of the reasons why love is hard, especially in this our generation is that people are mostly after what they can get. Their love is based on benefits. Once there is no benefits the love disappears.

Agree that's why it's essential to observe the attitude of the person before we delve into something we call love. Many abuse love and those weak if carried by there emotions become victims of there own haste in submitting themselves into wrong relationships.

 

[AruneBend]

People usually look for the benefits; for example, if you are very pretty, some people don't have that. Also, when you find love, breakups are very common because people get bored of each other.

 

[Starmix]

People usually look for the benefits; for example, if you are very pretty, some people don't have that. Also, when you find love, breakups are very common because people get bored of each other.

So love gets bored, lol, instead of making it stronger everyday. But that's the usual of someone in love not cared of, love to fly away. It's better to make it quits to move on and be happy.