Woman found dead with baby told loved ones about stress over pumping milk, son's jaundice

[Starmix]

After suffering a miscarriage, a woman visited a fertility clinic for checks, and later successfully conceived and gave birth to a healthy baby boy. However, she felt overwhelmed and worried about being unable to take care of her newborn son, despite hiring a confinement nanny and a domestic helper.

She also worried about his persistent jaundice and her own struggles with pumping enough breast milk. In a note left for her son, the 33-year-old Singaporean woman wrote that she loved him and that he was not a mistake.

It was learned that this mom suffered from depression causing her to neglect her responsibility as a mother. She should have not killed her son with her. She felt tired pumping her breast milk when in fact, they had a milk powder for the baby. She might have a mental problem.

The nanny went to the kitchen and found the window open as usual, but noticed that the laundry left to dry had been shifted aside to create a clear path, and a usually stowed away plastic chair was placed in front of the window, so the case showed there was no foul play. The neighbors who spoke to the police did not observe any sign of a dispute.

 

[eLdavis]

The previous miscarriage must have placed a scar in her soul, hence she is still wounded mentally about the whole incident.

 

[Starmix]

The previous miscarriage must have placed a scar in her soul, hence she is still wounded mentally about the whole incident.

There are also married women who experienced miscarriage but didn't attempt to harm themselves and their babies. She might have a mental problem.

 

[Augusta]

Oh wow she was traumatized for so long. motherhood can be really a depressing time. People need to understand this and seek help early enough

 

[Starmix]

But it was her baby, she should have not killed her baby. He has done nothing bad to his mom except pumping for baby's breastmilk. She should do it solo.

 

[aninditasen]

After suffering a miscarriage, a woman visited a fertility clinic for checks, and later successfully conceived and gave birth to a healthy baby boy. However, she felt overwhelmed and worried about being unable to take care of her newborn son, despite hiring a confinement nanny and a domestic helper.

She also worried about his persistent jaundice and her own struggles with pumping enough breast milk. In a note left for her son, the 33-year-old Singaporean woman wrote that she loved him and that he was not a mistake.

It was learned that this mom suffered from depression causing her to neglect her responsibility as a mother. She should have not killed her son with her. She felt tired pumping her breast milk when in fact, they had a milk powder for the baby. She might have a mental problem.

The nanny went to the kitchen and found the window open as usual, but noticed that the laundry left to dry had been shifted aside to create a clear path, and a usually stowed away plastic chair was placed in front of the window, so the case showed there was no foul play. The neighbors who spoke to the police did not observe any sign of a dispute.

This is really sad. Poor mom wish she had someone to boost her courage.

 

[eLdavis]

There are also married women who experienced miscarriage but didn't attempt to harm themselves and their babies. She might have a mental problem.

It's possible she had a mental problem but then again not everyone handle los the same way. Some people handle it better than others.

 

[Starmix]

It's possible she had a mental problem but then again not everyone handle los the same way. Some people handle it better than others.

The fact that she already has a baby guarantee changes of her attitude. She should have told her husband about her problem regarding her stressful feelings when pumping milk so she could get the solution of her problem from her husband. There's no mother who dares to kill a newly born just because of pumping milk. There is something wrong with her.

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This is really sad. Poor mom wish she had someone to boost her courage.

She's mentally sick it's should be love to show through a little sacrifice and not to give up by killing herself and her baby.

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This is really sad. Poor mom wish she had someone to boost her courage.

She's mentally sick it's should be love to show through a little sacrifice and not to give up by killing herself and her baby. She's not in her right thinking.

 

[Augusta]

But it was her baby, she should have not killed her baby. He has done nothing bad to his mom except pumping for baby's breastmilk. She should do it solo.

Some experience might just be traumatic and leave people totally damaged. But she would have sought out for help

 

[Starmix]

Some experience might just be traumatic and leave people totally damaged. But she would have sought out for help

Her husband should have observed the changes of attitude of his wife. I don't he does not observe or only ignore. I pity that newly born, born to be killed.

 

[eLdavis]

The fact that she already has a baby guarantee changes of her attitude. She should have told her husband about her problem regarding her stressful feelings when pumping milk so she could get the solution of her problem from her husband. There's no mother who dares to kill a newly born just because of pumping milk. There is something wrong with her.

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She's mentally sick it's should be love to show through a little sacrifice and not to give up by killing herself and her baby.

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She's mentally sick it's should be love to show through a little sacrifice and not to give up by killing herself and her baby. She's not in her right thinking.

Like I said people deal with things like this in different ways. I have seen lots of cases like this, you might think having another child means she has been healed from that hurt but that might not be the case. Then again it's also possible it could be some mental issues.

 

[Starmix]

Like I said people deal with things like this in different ways. I have seen lots of cases like this, you might think having another child means she has been healed from that hurt but that might not be the case. Then again it's also possible it could be some mental issues.

That is case to case. My sister - in - law was on miscarriage, thought she acted strangely that time for losing her first baby but her husband, my brother was always on her side helping her to accept their fate. She was able to mow on. She got pregnant after one year and they lived happily after surpassing the worst ordeal.

 

[Sanjeev]

She must be having some mental issues which caused her to take this step.

 

[Starmix]

That's the assumption of the people. How come a sane mother felt tired feeding and killing her innocent baby. She's insane.

 

[Augusta]

The thing is that some women are just unfit to be mother's. i dont think it is good to shift any traumatic experience to a baby

 

[Starmix]

The thing is that some women are just unfit to be mother's. i dont think it is good to shift any traumatic experience to a baby

A baby is God's gift and to be treasured and not to be killed when a mom finds it boring ort tiring. She better told her husband about her problem.

 

[Augusta]

A baby is God's gift and to be treasured and not to be killed when a mom finds it boring ort tiring. She better told her husband about her problem.

Yesh or even tell the people around her to help out. No need killing the baby or could it be the case of mental health illness

 

[Starmix]

Yesh or even tell the people around her to help out. No need killing the baby or could it be the case of mental health illness

If she has mental illness, she won't leave a message for her son before killing themselves. She lacked commonsense and fighting spirit. If she only believes the power of prayer she won't do it.