Won’t you marry if you are poor or jobless?

[Starmix]

I would say it is not significantly right, but it is definitely a complex issue with many factors to consider. On one hand, financial stability can definitely make a marriage less stressful. Money problems are a leading cause of conflict in relationships, so having a solid financial foundation can provide a sense of security and allow couples to focus on other aspects of their relationship.

However, love, companionship, and emotional support are also crucial for a successful marriage. Waiting until you are financially perfect might mean a missing out on a wonderful relationship with someone you truly love.

It really boils down to individual circumstances and priorities. Some couples are perfectly happy building their lives together from the ground up, while others prefer to wait until they are more finically secure.

Remember, poor can mean different things to different people. It is not always just about the amount of money someone has, but also about their work ethic, their ambition, and the ability to manage their finances.

 

[Sanjeev]

No, I won't marry if I am poor and jobless. There are lots of financial responsibilities when you have your family and when you can't take them you should not marry. That's what I believe.

 

[klassicdoll]

Me too, I won't marry unless I’m financially stable. I’m always the type who wants to be independent and prepared — though I know life can bring unexpected things along the way. I want to have savings, a stable job, and be able to stand on my own before settling down. I just feel it’s better to build a strong foundation first, both emotionally and financially. And also, I don’t want to depend on my partner. After all, women nowadays are strong and independent — and it’s nice when both partners can stand on their own.

 

[Sanjeev]

Absolutely every females must think like you. They should be financially stable then think of marriage.

 

[klassicdoll]

Absolutely every females must think like you. They should be financially stable then think of marriage.

Hehe thank you! I just feel being financially stable first makes things feel more secure. Everyone’s journey is different, but a little independence never hurts, right?

 

[eLdavis]

It won't be right to get married when you are jobless cause how would you take care of and build your own family?

 

[Starmix]

I will also never marry if I have no job, or marry a guy who is jobless and poor . That will be a great disaster , and hunger cannot be postponed, lol.

 

[Trush Jodie]

People that don't have financial stability to take care of themselves should never think of marriage. And that is applicable to both male and female.

 

[Springtime]

That depends on the financial situation of your partner. If you are poor and jobless but the partner you are going to marry is financially stable, and you love each other, you can consider getting married. You can be a housewife and take care of the children. If the couple is both poor and jobless, then better not getting married until you are financially ready.

 

[Starmix]

When you marry you will multiply , so if both of you are jobless and marry then you're like committing suicide. Let alone during the wife's pregnancy it requires a lot of preparations especially money preparation.

 

[Augusta]

Marriage without money might not really work. You need to have some levelmof financial stability before marrying

 

[Starmix]

How will you and your partner survive without money after marriage? What a shame to ask for financial help for the family. The smart move is to save first and find a decent job before marrying.

 

[Suba]

If I were poor, jobless, and had no money, even without a wedding, we still need wedding expenses, which are covered by the groom. Many women even pay for the wedding. So, when we get married, we have to have jobs like delivering food, working as an online motorcycle taxi driver, driving a taxi, etc. If the woman accepts, then that's true love, so even if I become a manager at a large company, I will remain faithful.

 

[Tobi]

You want to get married. Congratulations! Just remember once you get married its the two of you together against the world for the rest of your life (ideally). Sit down and talk about what you want your life to be like. If you both want to be wandering gypsies with no fixed job and you want to do it together then great, go for it. If one will work and one will stay home and that sounds good to both of your then great, go for it. If you are both students who want to get married and study hard together before enter the working world then great, go for it.

 

[Starmix]

Some couples are perfectly happy building their lives together from the ground up, while others prefer to wait until they are more financially secure. This is a testament that love matters most, and money comes in after the two people in love work together to achieve their dreams. Love finds a way.

 

[Trush Jodie]

If the guy has a good job and I also have a good job, I would easily marry him. By good job, I mean a job that can sufficiently pay our bills.

 

[Starmix]

I will also marry my lover if he has a good job and can afford to pay the bills, buy food, and save even a little. It is crucial if the guy is not a regular employee, anytime, he will be sacked.

 

[Augusta]

How will you and your partner survive without money after marriage? What a shame to ask for financial help for the family. The smart move is to save first and find a decent job before marrying.

This is the way to go. We just have to do the right thing like having financial stability before marriage

 

[eLdavis]

Getting married when you are not financially stable would only lead to ruin, no matter how much love you have for each other, Love won't put food on the table.

 

[Starmix]

This is the way to go. We just have to do the right thing like having financial stability before marriage

Some individuals never care about the next day or the future; all that's on their minds is their present happiness.