A newly born needs a lot of financial preparations...

[Starmix]

If you are not ready for this challenge, don't marry yet. The wife despite having a job but heavily depends on his husband's financial support or they could spilt. Let alone the vitamins of the newly born, the vaccination, the vitamins, the back up milk and the mom's milk and food too, need attention. That was the real picture I witnessed, the time my sister married, got pregnant and delivered a baby. She and her hubby were busy and spent so much financial preparations. They both have and it was not hard for them.

What about to those no preparations at all? It will be crucial. I met a long time no see friend but his approach was overwhelming, he borrowed money from me to buy milk for his two months old baby. He was fired from his job reason disclosed. He said his wife fed their baby with a coco milk. Their child was hospitalised. The doctor punished them. The baby got a severe stomach ache for drinking a coco milk.

He begged to me to borrow money. I gave him money $100 and told him not to pay me. That's for baby's milk, told him.

It's crucial to marry without savings and a stable job or business.

 

[eLdavis]

Raising a child is not something you go into without proper preparation. You need to be prepared both mentally, emotionally and financially.

 

[neku]

One married couple are targetting older single women for financial fraud, plotting her death so that they can have enough money for their baby, instead of selling their car.

 

[Fire&Rain]

Bringing life into the world is something that needs a lot of preparations. Spending starts before the new born has even arrived in the world and it will continue for years and years so ite best to make sure your are ready for it.

 

[Starmix]

Raising a child is not something you go into without proper preparation. You need to be prepared both mentally, emotionally and financially.

Are you ready to become parent? Some individuals do not care whether there is a preparation or not, they just follow their urges not minding oof the crucial result which may resort to regret.

 

[Springtime]

Raising a baby requires a lot of planning, including financial and lifestyle. If you are not well prepared, your life will be in a mess and that's not good for the baby too.

 

[Starmix]

Raising a baby requires a lot of planning, including financial and lifestyle. If you are not well prepared, your life will be in a mess and that's not good for the baby too.

Incoming parents must do a lot of preparations before becoming parents. Their lifestyles will be different when they were still single. Those who are not prepared better not to have a baby while they are still building their finances.

 

[Trush Jodie]

The cost of baby milk alone is really much. Not to talk of the many other expenses you would make as the child grows through the baby stage.

 

[eLdavis]

Are you ready to become parent? Some individuals do not care whether there is a preparation or not, they just follow their urges not minding oof the crucial result which may resort to regret.

I think it's safe to say am not ready yet cause financially, what comes in is not stable enough to rely upon. Then again i still have much to learn and prepare myself mentally and emotionally.

 

[Starmix]

I think it's safe to say am not ready yet cause financially, what comes in is not stable enough to rely upon. Then again i still have much to learn and prepare myself mentally and emotionally.

Very good decision,it's not advisable to act and decide impulsively. Wait for the right time. Marrying is not a contest but a torture .

 

[Augusta]

Yes, The first step in financial planning for a baby is understanding the associated costs as it comes with different expenses

 

[Starmix]

Planning is an important action to take by the couple so when the baby arrives, they won't feel the financial burden, especially this time babies' needs are more expensive than what mature people need..

 

[Suba]

That's right, before we get married we need adequate financial preparation especially for the newborn baby, but what if the wife is wasteful, the husband's savings given to the wife have been used up for her pleasure. As a new couple, of course the husband does not immediately trust his wife to be able to manage finances well, be it from monthly salary, business profits, investment returns, etc., maybe it's not best to immediately hand over all finances to the wife but rather gradually.

 

[Nomad]

Having a child needs a lot of financial plannings as you need to be ready to support your child until he reaches 18 years of age.

 

[Starmix]

That's right, before we get married we need adequate financial preparation especially for the newborn baby, but what if the wife is wasteful, the husband's savings given to the wife have been used up for her pleasure. As a new couple, of course the husband does not immediately trust his wife to be able to manage finances well, be it from monthly salary, business profits, investment returns, etc., maybe it's not best to immediately hand over all finances to the wife but rather gradually.

One needs to choose the right human being to become a lifetime partner, not a fake one who is only good at the beginning. Some people are that good at pretending just to lure the person to trust her or him fully.

 

[eLdavis]

Very good decision,it's not advisable to act and decide impulsively. Wait for the right time. Marrying is not a contest but a torture .

Lol true, once you are fully ready both mentally and emotionally, and even financially you can then decide to get married.

 

[Starmix]

Lol true, once you are fully ready both mentally and emotionally, and even financially you can then decide to get married.

My friends who have just married confessed they better be single. They said if they can only bring back yesterday they will do it. They said they feel suffocated with a spouse who doesn't give them freedom to go out with family.

 

[eLdavis]

My friends who have just married confessed they better be single. They said if they can only bring back yesterday they will do it. They said they feel suffocated with a spouse who doesn't give them freedom to go out with family.

Lol this is one of the reasons why we have so many people going into divorce today, cause they are not ready in so many ways for marriage.

 

[Starmix]

Lol this is one of the reasons why we have so many people going into divorce today, cause they are not ready in so many ways for marriage.

Right, I decided to remain single if that's the case. I want freedom and financial independence. I don't want a man who might rely on me financially, unless he's faithful and a one woman - man .

 

[eLdavis]

Right, I decided to remain single if that's the case. I want freedom and financial independence. I don't want a man who might rely on me financially, unless he's faithful and a one woman - man .

Makes sense, same here, i want to get financial freedom as well before i think about marriage, i want my family to be able to enjoy the things i didn't while growing up.