Do kids ever reimburse us or is the financial burden forever

[Fire&Rain]

Many parents hope that once children finish university and start working, they can contribute back financially. Some do, helping with household expenses or supporting younger siblings, which eases the parents’ burden. However, not all children find work immediately, and some may struggle with employment even after graduating.In such cases, parents may continue supporting adult children, sometimes for years. This raises questions about boundaries, responsibility, and long-term planning. It’s a delicate balance between helping your children succeed and not jeopardizing your own financial stability.

Even when children are independent, parents may choose to support them occasionally, for emergencies, health, or other needs. This ongoing dynamic can affect retirement planning, savings, and lifestyle choices. Discussing expectations early and creating a plan for independence can help. Ultimately, the financial responsibility of children doesn’t always end at adulthood. Parents must consider possibilities like unemployment, health issues, or other challenges that may require continued support. Preparing financially for these scenarios can reduce stress and ensure both parents and children thrive. How have you handled the financial responsibilities for grown children, especially if they struggle to find work or become independent, and what strategies have helped maintain balance in your family finances?

 

[Kera]

Kids don't need to reimburse us neither the financial burden is supposed to last forever. Kids are blessings in disguise, the earlier you expose them to learning skills that will enhance their lives and give you a relief, the better for you. Kids grow with time up to the point of taking care of themselves thereby relieving you and might even care for you as well but you must never pressure them. You only need to keep pushing them up and allow them to grow and give back willingly.

 

[Springtime]

That depends on the kids. Here, most kids give a portion of their monthly salary or pocket money to their parents after they graduate and get a job. Some just spend the money on his/her own.

 

[King Belieal]

There is no way that a child can reimburse parents for all the expenses that they have incurred. It is just a responsibility to train your kids in school.

 

[Augusta]

I don't even think Parents should look forward to any reimbursement. If you have some financial assistance from them then fine and good