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Do you easily feel discouraged?

Starmix said:
As human beings, we cannot avoid mixed emotions and one emotion that cannot be controlled is feeling discouraged. I easily feel discouraged and when I feel this, I no longer like and everything will be colorless and tasteless, and no matter how the cause of such feeling cannot be ignored. There will be dislikeness and no more motive to proceed.
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I am like that too. But to bounce back I normally take a nap or retire for the day. Once morning hits I will be pumped up again.
 
Fire&Rain said:
I am like that too. But to bounce back I normally take a nap or retire for the day. Once morning hits I will be pumped up again.
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Taking a short nap can help too. Our hearts and minds are busy, and stressed and we cannot function well for the right move. After a short nap , I feel renewed and rejuvenated,
 
I easily get discouraged when I have to give in so much efforts to anything and it doesn't yield any tangible result to me.
 
I was taught here, in this therapeutic community that there are 5 emotions that every human being feels:
Joy - Pain - Anger - Anxiety - Fear
Said this about this argument, if,then, when , if there are others, etc, they will explain to us next week.
 
Starmix said:
It is normal to feel discouraged but such feeling does not dominate the self. It's just a temporary feeling what to follow would be resolutions on how to resolve the issue that triggers to feel discouraged.
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In fact, at this moment, given the outcome of my court ruling last Friday which could be confirmed (and I sincerely hope not!) within 5 days, this is making me feel every negative emotion among those previously mentioned except joy. Because my dearest friend, unfortunately I have to inform you that what has been said about me is something truly filthy... but above all explicitly false!😢😢
 
Alberello75 said:
In fact, at this moment, given the outcome of my court ruling last Friday which could be confirmed (and I sincerely hope not!) within 5 days, this is making me feel every negative emotion among those previously mentioned except joy. Because my dearest friend, unfortunately I have to inform you that what has been said about me is something truly filthy... but above all explicitly false!😢😢
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What's the use of your lawyer when he can't refute the allegations of the court? That's hard and cruel, but maintain your cool composure and positive mindset.
 
Starmix said:
What's the use of your lawyer when he can't refute the allegations of the court? That's hard and cruel, but maintain your cool composure and positive mindset.
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Fortunately, the absurd sentence of last Friday was rectified just yesterday. It happened because a completely erroneous sentence was shamefully read, which could have led me to further very serious consequences! Therefore, my lawyer firmly opposed it and demonstrated that my behavior here in the community has been exemplary. In two days, my prison sentence will be definitively over. However, I will unfortunately have to remain in this facility for another year, but I will have much more freedom, even to be able to go out, which as you know, I have not had until now.
 
Alberello75 said:
Fortunately, the absurd sentence of last Friday was rectified just yesterday. It happened because a completely erroneous sentence was shamefully read, which could have led me to further very serious consequences! Therefore, my lawyer firmly opposed it and demonstrated that my behavior here in the community has been exemplary. In two days, my prison sentence will be definitively over. However, I will unfortunately have to remain in this facility for another year, but I will have much more freedom, even to be able to go out, which as you know, I have not had until now.
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That's good news my friend at least your lawyer did his fight for your right but it seems not right extending your stay in jail for another year. Hopefully, you'll have your freedom restored next year. Hoping you won't live in the same apartment. Your enemy might bully you.
 
Starmix said:
That's good news my friend at least your lawyer did his fight for your right but it seems not right extending your stay in jail for another year. Hopefully, you'll have your freedom restored next year. Hoping you won't live in the same apartment. Your enemy might bully you.​
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Well, however, despite my behavior here in the community has been exemplary in every rule, once the detention for a crime was over, which in my case already over on last March 26, they should have given me the freedom to return home permanently. But, unfortunately since I am a disabled person in this case this does not work in my favor. In fact, for that reason I will be held here even if with more freedom, however for another whole year which, forgive me but is not a short time. However, you see, I'm not the one who sets certain rules.​
 
Starmix said:
That's the essence if there are rules to follow. There might be reasons and supports for holding you for one year. One year is too short though.
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My dearest friend, first of all I apologize for the delay in responding but I was unable to access the bucks discussion. In my opinion, another year is not a short time since I have already had to spend one in here. However, this happens because, reading the report written by the judge, I having been judged a socially dangerous person given the related crime, not enough time has passed to be able to earn the trust of a respectable person. However, within this year, I will also have to carry out activities aimed at finding a job which would be a very positive thing for me.
 
Alberello75 said:
My dearest friend, first of all I apologize for the delay in responding but I was unable to access the bucks discussion. In my opinion, another year is not a short time since I have already had to spend one in here. However, this happens because, reading the report written by the judge, I having been judged a socially dangerous person given the related crime, not enough time has passed to be able to earn the trust of a respectable person. However, within this year, I will also have to carry out activities aimed at finding a job which would be a very positive thing for me.
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Really? That's a little bit consolation for your aching heart extending a stay for another year but allowed to find a job. l am so happy for you. Always bear in mind to stay positive, extend a patience and never be impulsive. It's crucial. Always pray too to Jesus Christ.
 
Starmix said:
Really? That's a little bit consolation for your aching heart extending a stay for another year but allowed to find a job. l am so happy for you. Always bear in mind to stay positive, extend a patience and never be impulsive. It's crucial. Always pray too to Jesus Christ.
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Thank you dear♥️🌹 . As I told you, this will be a very busy year for me and I have to do whatever activities they ask of me, especially with the aim of finally being able to return home free. Also because if I don't do these activities properly, they have already told me that in the end there is a big risk that they will extend my stay here for another year, so....
 
Alberello75 said:
Thank you dear♥️🌹 . As I told you, this will be a very busy year for me and I have to do whatever activities they ask of me, especially with the aim of finally being able to return home free. Also because if I don't do these activities properly, they have already told me that in the end there is a big risk that they will extend my stay here for another year, so....
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Yes keep in mind those words told to you by those authorities. Always stay away from trouble ignore them and stay positive.
 
freelancermaria said:
Well, it depends on the gravity of the problem. If it is a very challenging problem, I tend to feel discouraged easily. However, there are times that I will try again.
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Yes feeling discouraged now and then is completely normal, especially if you have tried various ways and it's still not working out, the most important thing would be to be able to get back up
 
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