Do you get upset when your wife keeps on asking money from you?

[aninditasen]

There are wives who cannot plan well in budgeting. Some wives may love to spend even if their husbands already work like carabaos, no rest and sometimes having late meals. The wife must offer food to the husband if he is working online. If the husband works in an office, the wife must prepare home cooked food for husband's lunch. Good if a wife is doing that way to mean she has the ability to budget the family's finances and not to keep on asking money daily except for the kids daily allowances. How does your wife help you in your hard earned money?

Wives who keep asking money from their husband to spend carelessly takes the family towards poverty. However when unemployed wives ask money from their husband for family needs she can't be blamed for that.

 

[eLdavis]

Am not married yet though but I think one can only be angry in situations like this if she is asking to use the money on things that are not important or necessary.

 

[Fidelia]

As a wife, I won't keep on nagging my husband with excessive financial demands. It can be very suffocating to a man.

 

[Starmix]

Wives who keep asking money from their husband to spend carelessly takes the family towards poverty. However when unemployed wives ask money from their husband for family needs she can't be blamed for that.

It's a normal thing for a wife to ask money to her husband but it becomes abnormal if she keeps on asking. That would annoy the husband. The wife must write down what to buy one time and show it to the husband. That avoids malicious thinking of the husband who happens to be the sole bread winner.

 

[pousinha]

Well, dear friends, in my couple it was my husband keeping on asking money from me, as his earnings are very smaller than mine (OK, it mostly happened before he began to receive a discreet governmental allowance, as in my couple I'm the breadwinner).

 

[Starmix]

Well, dear friends, in my couple it was my husband keeping on asking money from me, as his earnings are very smaller than mine (OK, it mostly happened before he began to receive a discreet governmental allowance, as in my couple I'm the breadwinner).

At least, you are there to support your husband he he. If you have many kids , it is crucial for he earns small and you are of the great advantage. Rock on!

 

[aninditasen]

It's a normal thing for a wife to ask money to her husband but it becomes abnormal if she keeps on asking. That would annoy the husband. The wife must write down what to buy one time and show it to the husband. That avoids malicious thinking of the husband who happens to be the sole bread winner.

Men must take the responsibility of getting the family essential home. My father and husband both did it.

 

[Suba]

Wives who keep asking money from their husband to spend carelessly takes the family towards poverty. However when unemployed wives ask money from their husband for family needs she can't be blamed for that.

What if the husband is just a worker who receives a salary every month, if the wife asks for money continuously from her husband, it will encourage the husband to act corruptly.

 

[Starmix]

Men must take the responsibility of getting the family essential home. My father and husband both did it.

That is also a case-to-case situation because there are husbands who turn to be house bands he he so it is the wifey to act as the bread winner in the family. The husband may ask for money from his wife.

 

[pousinha]

At least, you are there to support your husband he he. If you have many kids , it is crucial for he earns small and you are of the great advantage. Rock on!

Just today he asked money from me (or better said, he asked me to use my credit card ) because he needs a new motherboard for his desktop (the old one busted), but he can't afford to purchase one. I'll first see how much the dentist bills me next week and then, if there will be money left over, I proceed with the purchasing.

 

[Starmix]

Just today he asked money from me (or better said, he asked me to use my credit card ) because he needs a new motherboard for his desktop (the old one busted), but he can't afford to purchase one. I'll first see how much the dentist bills me next week and then, if there will be money left over, I proceed with the purchasing.

That is love, in case I marry someday and my husband lacks the finances to have a low salary, I am always ready to help him with my money he he for him to be happy and enjoy life with me. Love knows no bounds.

 

[aninditasen]

That is also a case-to-case situation because there are husbands who turn to be house bands he he so it is the wifey to act as the bread winner in the family. The husband may ask for money from his wife.

In India we find this situation among the tribals. It's usually the wife who earns while the husband drinks and make merry.

 

[Starmix]

In India we find this situation among the tribals. It's usually the wife who earns while the husband drinks and make merry.

Nah what kind of culture is that a husband on drinking spree and merriment while the wife works as the bread winner. That's insane.

 

[pousinha]

In India we find this situation among the tribals. It's usually the wife who earns while the husband drinks and make merry.

Nah what kind of culture is that a husband on drinking spree and merriment while the wife works as the bread winner. That's insane.

Obviously, that's insane. How Indian women tolerate such a shame? In the case the husband would engage in domestic chores, cooking, etc., there is nothing wrong. But drinking and making merry while the wife acts as the breadwinner while not looking for a job is totally shameful. I knew about such a questionable habit in Turkey (at least in a certain area during my time, as I knew a couple of missionaries doing their job in Turkey and they got in touch with the local culture). Turks drinking and smoking while their wives were the breadwinners and in addition, beating them.

 

[Starmix]

Obviously, that's insane. How Indian women tolerate such a shame? In the case the husband would engage in domestic chores, cooking, etc., there is nothing wrong. But drinking and making merry while the wife acts as the breadwinner while not looking for a job is totally shameful. I knew about such a questionable habit in Turkey (at least in a certain area during my time, as I knew a couple of missionaries doing their job in Turkey and they got in touch with the local culture). Turks drinking and smoking while their wives were the breadwinners and in addition, beating them.

What kind of life is that, the wife works for the family while the husband on a drinking spree and beats the wife with a useless reason. Why cant the wife leave the insane husband. I never tolerate such kind of fate.

 

[pousinha]

What kind of life is that, the wife works for the family while the husband on a drinking spree and beats the wife with a useless reason. Why cant the wife leave the insane husband. I never tolerate such kind of fate.

Because it's (or it was during my times: hoping it changed meanwhile) simply the Turkish culture out of the upper social classes.

 

[Starmix]

Because it's (or it was during my times: hoping it changed meanwhile) simply the Turkish culture out of the upper social clasI ca

I cannot survive such kind of cruelty, I better leave my useless husband and go to a sorcerer he he. It may also happen here but very rarely .

 

[pousinha]

Well, I'd rather put my backpack on my shoulders and I'd go hunting in the woods to get dinner instead of following with such an useless husband .

 

[Starmix]

Well, I'd rather put my backpack on my shoulders and I'd go hunting in the woods to get dinner instead of following with such an useless husband .

That is the best way to rejuvenate going to the forest to hunt for food or hunt for a new husband . A husband like that needs to be divorced after 24 hours of marriage, if only he he.

 

[pousinha]

Have to wait until 24 hours, my dear? Too, too late for my tastes ...I couldn't wait 24 minutes to ask for divorce.