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Do you lend your brother money for his investment plan?

I lent my brother some money for his investment capital but he failed because his wife was so extravagant. He worked overseas but had no savings. He sent all his money to his useless wife. My bro is now back in Houston but before he left, he filed a legal separation with his wife after learning that she has a child with another man.
 
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Starmix said:
My brother lent me money for his investment but he failed because his wife was so extravagant. He worked overseas but no savings. He sent all his money to his useless wife. My bro is now back to Houston but before he left, he filed a legal separation with his wife after learned that she has a child with another man.
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It is so sad and disappointing, a wife who is so wasteful that she even has a child with another man. I think money can be forgiven but cheating with another man is unforgivable and must be divorced immediately.
 
Suba said:
It is so sad and disappointing, a wife who is so wasteful that she even has a child with another man. I think money can be forgiven but cheating with another man is unforgivable and must be divorced immediately.
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Yes, and it broke the hearts of our family to see our brother in pain. He learned the betrayal of his wife through his eldest daughter who was 7 years old at that time. He was wondering why his wife did not meet him at the airport. At the time of his arrival was also the time his bad wife delivered her sinful son.
 
wiseman said:
There is also two sides to a story.Was he cheating on her first.A woman will only cheat if you cheat on her first
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The point is many societies (the south European ones, until the twentieth century) pushed women to overlook husbands' cheating, while wives' cheating should never be ignored. I also remember an article in the Italian penal code stating the wife's adultery was a crime, but the laws didn't consider the husband's adultery. Pitiful. As a man could have as many lovers he wanted (well, despite in the real life only a rich or wealthy man could afford a lover and the average man only had a wife during his life). Faithfulness was a woman's duty only. Pitiful and disgraceful.
 
wiseman said:
There is also two sides to a story.Was he cheating on her first.A woman will only cheat if you cheat on her first
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My brother is never a cheater it is not in my family. It was his wife who cheated him with many men while he works overseas in Houston , Texas as an ElecticalEngineer. Hs wife cannot suffice without a man in her life. She also takes drugs. My brother is unlucky.
 
Starmix said:
My brother is never a cheater it is not in my family. It was his wife who cheated him with many men while he works overseas in Houston , Texas as an ElecticalEngineer. Hs wife cannot suffice without a man in her life. She also takes drugs. My brother is unlucky.
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I'm so sorry your family bumped into such a pitiful circumstance. When people become drug addicts, nothing good is to be expected. I hope your brother to recover soon from such a mishap.
 
pousinha said:
I'm so sorry your family bumped into such a pitiful circumstance. When people become drug addicts, nothing good is to be expected. I hope your brother to recover soon from such a mishap.
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I pity my brother, I feel what he feels- the excruciating pain and injury inflicted by his heartless wife. He could move on after three years of carrying the pain of betrayal.
 
Starmix said:
I pity my brother, I feel what he feels- the excruciating pain and injury inflicted by his heartless wife. He could move on after three years of carrying the pain of betrayal.
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Sure! He needs to follow with his life. If I don't mistake, he lives in the USA, where it should be very much easier.
 
pousinha said:
Sure! He needs to follow with his life. If I don't mistake, he lives in the USA, where it should be very much easier.
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Yes,he works in Houston, Texas as an Electrical Engineer. My bro is now busy at work and he graduayhealed his broken heart.
 
pousinha said:
Being busy with his job is surely helpful. He really has a very good job that should carry interesting opportunities.
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That is right, he was able to heal his broken heart and miseries in life through getting busy at work. His wife has now two kids with her insignificant partner.Karma will be hers soon.
 
Sometimes we have to say No impulsively to anyone who wants to borrow money from us even from a family member because of abuse. They never pay. They're thinking that it's easy to say any excuses, but the fact is, they will never pay.
 
Starmix said:
I do lend money to my brother for his investment plan. I never required my brother to sign a pre appointed evidence for the sake of sake of being siblings.

But so sad the investment of my brother didn't last longer, he experienced a big loss so he didn't pay me. My brother reinvested and gained. He paid me and at this time he's trained on how to trade.

We should always trust our brother. Let's not hesitate to lend our bro some amount for a personal need. Do you lend your brother money?
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Unfortunately, i don't have a brother or sister. But if i have i will render any help to make his life better except if he is careless and not serious with what he is doing.
 
magnus2022 said:
Unfortunately, i don't have a brother or sister. But if i have i will render any help to make his life better except if he is careless and not serious with what he is doing.
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We cannot refuse our family member needing money for an important purpose, however, they may also face problems along the way that may unable them to pay us like what I experienced.
 
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