Does getting married would stabilize a man's financial life- True or False?

[King Belieal]

A friend of mine wants to get married pretty soon. And I asked him why he wants to marry and he said that he wants to stabilize his financial life.

I am at awe here. How can someone getting married stabilize financial life as a man? Is there something I am missing? I thought marriage puts a financial burden on a man?

 

[Springtime]

I don't think getting married helps to stabilize a man's financial situation, unless his wife has a decent job and is making good money.

 

[freelancermaria]

I do not understand why he made that comment. Is it because the woman he wants to marry is wealthy? I would not marry someone solely for their money. It is more important to me to deeply love the person.

 

[Stardom22]

I think that depends on the married couple. You may find that some of the spouses are very well off and rich that are willing to help and uplift the other financially.

 

[King Belieal]

I am scared of getting married and part of the reason for that is because of the financial burden that it involves. I don't know how it stabilizes a man financially.

 

[SHAHID987]

Some people think that if they will marry then expenses will increase and so they may face financial crises but in reality nothing like this happen. I myself when married my financial condition improved.

 

[Suba]

In general it is true, when you are single, you are free and no one forbids you to spend your income in just one night, but after marriage there is control from your wife and you also have the responsibility to fulfill the needs of your family, so every penny you will spend you have to think twice.

 

[Kross]

I don't know but marriage tends to calm a man down. They would be more calculated and plan their finances better.

 

[Stardom22]

That's actually depends on the type of the spouse one gets. There are some partners that come to destroy the entire life of the other and others would come to uplift and empower their spouse's

 

[Augusta]

I think it is about planning their money better. As a responsible family man you would plan your money better than when you are still single

 

[aninditasen]

A friend of mine wants to get married pretty soon. And I asked him why he wants to marry and he said that he wants to stabilize his financial life.

I am at awe here. How can someone getting married stabilize financial life as a man? Is there something I am missing? I thought marriage puts a financial burden on a man?

I think he maybe contemplating a big amount of dowry from the woman's family or think of marrying a woman who earns well.

 

[King Belieal]

Marriage drains a man financially. My married friend earns more than me but he is always constantly broke.

 

[Starmix]

It could be possible, why not if the two of them decide to work hand in hand together to build their business? There is nothing impossible if the two of you believe in the power of your love and your topnotch teamwork.

 

[eLdavis]

Getting married means more responsibilities, in other words you would be spending more as well. You are not longer taking care of just yourself, but you now have an extra mouth to care for. Who you marry on the other hand determines how your financial life would be.

 

[Stardom22]

That really depends on the personal perspective for that matter. As of me l have witnessed some being stabilized while others have their lives going miserable even more than before

 

[Starmix]

This time if it is only the husband working is hard but if his salary is more than enough there is nothing to worry. However, it is crucial if they have two or three kids they will surely be struggling to budget. It is best to have only one child.

 

[Stardom22]

Majority of the people that l had really witnessed with my eyes, the chances are they become destabilised at the long run. I bet marriage really needs some commitments and finances to manage it.

 

[Starmix]

Marriage is teamwork between two people in love.They are aware of the risks they will face once they become one. It needs commitment and understanding.

 

[Nomad]

I think marriage makes a man, I am talking gender specific man, more stable in finances. This actually happened to me

 

[kit_hung]

Bro, you are not the only one wondering that the logic of getting married to stabilize money is tricky. Married life is no joke, there are bills, there are responsibilities, and if you don't have a team, it can be a bad burden. Many people enter thinking it is a shortcut, but it is a new stress.

But there is also another side. If you marry someone with the same vision, you can build an empire together. There is support, there is accountability, there is motivation to go far. Not every marriage is a burden, some are a blessing. But you must know that what you are doing is not just marrying for the hopes of money.