Family quarrelling: it is lack of discipline's fault and not lack of money's fault

[pousinha]

Financial difficulties is the major cause of family problems. Women are likely to start disobeying their husband if he don't come home with enough money. On the other hand, husbands use to feel sad and unhappy if he can't live to his expectations.

First of all, especially during this XXI century, it's desirable both partners count on a job, because families can't rely any more on one single salary. We aren't any more in the 50s, 60s, 70s and 80s. And it's very desirable to not live above one's means.

 

[Min George]

The things that some families quarrel about is purely financial directly or indirectly. And money can solve it.

 

[Nomad]

Financial strain is one of the main reasons of family quarrel. Most of the time financial strain is not caused by low income but because of higher expenses.

 

[pousinha]

When higher expenses are caused by health conditions, it's to understand those circumstances. When are caused by spendthrift habits, obviously quarrels follow. If a family member is a great saver and the others lavish money, no way to agree.

 

[Patty]

I have seen financial troubles wreck families that once used to be very loving. And it is always financial struggles that cause this.

 

[pousinha]

I'm sorry to hear such a news. A very loving family shouldn't succumb to shortage of money, but I understand that discouragement is (a sad) reaction of the human being.