Having a child without financial stability would render your financial life stuck.

[pousinha]

If parents lack enough money to properly feed a baby, to pay for pediatric doctors (yes, babies get sick easily) and to pay for the prescribed drugs, sorry if I say it's not the wisest decision to plan a family. In case the couple decides to marry in any way, but to practise birth control (in terms of contraceptives), well, in such a case there is no extra mouth to feed. So it should be OK.

 

[itsmejob]

Before getting married and starting a family, they should have at least secured funds for their first baby. Or should have been ready for their family in the first place. If they don't have savings, they should have at least source of income.

 

[eLdavis]

That's right from the word Go having any extra mouth to feed is a problem. You need your own stability to rasiee a child well.

Even something as little as maintaining a relationship, you need capital to do so. Yes love matters but in reality, it is not everything.

 

[Augusta]

Even something as little as maintaining a relationship, you need capital to do so. Yes love matters but in reality, it is not everything.

LoL, I agree with you love is all that matters but you need money to cement that's the reality of things.

 

[SilverLance]

Having a child is a huge responsibility that requires financial stability and preparedness. By waiting until you are in a secure financial position, you can provide a better future for both yourself and your child.

 

[Trush Jodie]

I have so many friends who said they were in love and got pregnant for a guy they were in love with and today, the love is scattered because of financial pressures. The child is like a burden to them both.

 

[pousinha]

I have so many friends who said they were in love and got pregnant for a guy they were in love with and today, the love is scattered because of financial pressures. The child is like a burden to them both.

I'm sorry for your friends. Unfortunately, their hurry put them in a marshy ground. To maintain a baby, at least a discreet amount of money is needed (and depending on the country where they live, the discreet amount turns into a huge amount, as it happens in my current country).

 

[Fidelia]

In as much as I love children, I won't allow myself to get into unnecessary financial pressure by having a child that I am not prepared for.

 

[Kross]

We should learn to be very responsible for our reproductive lives and stop putting ourselves through financial hardships.

 

[Xtynehappy]

Of course yes. Things like the cost of education is very high and this would drain your pocket.

 

[King Belieal]

Of course yes. Things like the cost of education is very high and this would drain your pocket.

It is not just the cost of education that is high. Even the cost of giving a child a proper feeding daily is very expensive.

 

[Xtynehappy]

I even dislike that. It's like depriving the rights for the child which is very wrong.

 

[Fidelia]

There is need to always zip up or use contraceptives if you must have sexual encounter. The pressure of having a child without financial preparedness might kill you.

 

[Xtynehappy]

Nowadays things have really changed. Management of a family of like more than one child is very expensive and one should have money for that.

 

[Min George]

If one doesn't have money, why wouldn't they just control themselves and abstain so that they won't make life hard for themselves by bringing a child into this world.

 

[pousinha]

The worst in such a case, dear friend, it's the hard life of the baby who didn't beg to its parents to come into the world in such a destitute condition.

 

[Xtynehappy]

That is because the cost for education, medical attention, food among other needs are very expensive to have a child without a permanent job.

 

[pousinha]

That's why I think it's a reckless decision to try to conceive children while perfectly know we aren't in the least conditions to support even ourselves.

 

[Xtynehappy]

One should really be curious about that. Bearing of children is very crucial for that matter.