I love you for who you are and for who I am when I'm with you

[Starmix]

We always hear these words from the mouths of men during courtship and after having been accepted of his love proposal, the true color of him slowly emerges. Those were the sweet words of someone in my workplace, the girl has a child. She was a victim of love when she was 17. Despite her broken life, she continued to survive and make herself better by finishing a course. She became an accountant and worked in a famous bank as a teller. He met a guy, her colleague. They became lovers and planned for the wedding only to turn their dreams to dust when the guy left her for another. The girl, my friend was so brave to face her ordeal, yes, I saw her tears falling like a stream but those tears vanished and were replaced by hatred. She has now a heart hard as as a stone. This time, she regains her lost self and becomes a famous accountant and lawyer.

 

[eLdavis]

Most men and even women, what they do is love bombing. They just tell you all the nice things, and the moment you get attached to them, their true color comes out. There are till good people out there though.

 

[Starmix]

Most men and even women, what they do is love bombing. They just tell you all the nice things, and the moment you get attached to them, their true color comes out. There are till good people out there though.

Yes there are many good only l a very few bad that's why we have to be observant and never allow the self to be a prisoner of love. There will never be changes no matter how you're good to someone. It's best to stay away.

 

[eLdavis]

Indeed, let's be careful who we give out heart to, or who we invest our time and energy to cause not everyone deserves it.

 

[Starmix]

Let us stay away from someone not worth of our time and feelings. Only those worthy deserve to be loved and respected.

 

[eLdavis]

But the funny or painful thing is that people today would leave the honest ones and rush those who are not honest,then the moment they are hurt, they would start tagging everyone as bad.

 

[Starmix]

But the funny or painful thing is that people today would leave the honest ones and rush those who are not honest,then the moment they are hurt, they would start tagging everyone as bad.

That happens anywhere in the the world even in drama. Let us not be affected with lies of their drama to stay with us for better or for worse.

 

[freelancermaria]

Most men and even women, what they do is love bombing. They just tell you all the nice things, and the moment you get attached to them, their true color comes out. There are till good people out there though.

I could not agree more. Many people engage in love bombing as a tactic to win someone over. Once they have the person they desire, they often change their behavior, leaving the other person feeling confused about what happened. The person who once seemed to love them deeply suddenly transforms in a way that is hard to understand. Hehe

 

[eLdavis]

I could not agree more. Many people engage in love bombing as a tactic to win someone over. Once they have the person they desire, they often change their behavior, leaving the other person feeling confused about what happened. The person who once seemed to love them deeply suddenly transforms in a way that is hard to understand. Hehe

Lol it's really annoying, I guess the best way to tell if a person truly loves or are about you is time. The truth of the matter is no one can pretend for long.

 

[freelancermaria]

Lol it's really annoying, I guess the best way to tell if a person truly loves or are about you is time. The truth of the matter is no one can pretend for long.

Yes, it really is annoying. I have been a victim of love bombing. At first, I didn't know what it was called until I researched it. It hurts to experience this because I genuinely believed that the person really cared for me.

 

[eLdavis]

Yes, it really is annoying. I have been a victim of love bombing. At first, I didn't know what it was called until I researched it. It hurts to experience this because I genuinely believed that the person really cared for me.

Same here I have experienced this so may time, í always felt something was wrong with me hence the reason why after awhile they stop being close to me. It was actually a few days back I watched a video, that's when I know what love bombing was.

 

[freelancermaria]

Same here I have experienced this so may time, í always felt something was wrong with me hence the reason why after awhile they stop being close to me. It was actually a few days back I watched a video, that's when I know what love bombing was.

I’m sorry to hear that. We always thought there was something wrong with us, which is why they changed how they treated us. However, we’ve come to realize it was actually love bombing. I hope you find someone who will love you genuinely.

 

[Suba]

I think, not all men act and behave like that just to seek satisfaction by having a fake love. Men must realize, if we act like that, our daughters will also be played by men.

 

[Starmix]

Not all men are born liars. I have brothers and they are all faithful to their wives. There are only a very few cheaters mostly faithful and it's not only men doing a cruel act of betrayal, also women.

 

[Suba]

Not all men are born liars. I have brothers and they are all faithful to their wives. There are only a very few cheaters mostly faithful and it's not only men doing a cruel act of betrayal, also women.

I just evaluate myself, if I am not the type of man who likes to give fake love, so even though I have many female friends but it is difficult to fall in love before finding a woman who matches the personality that I desire.

 

[Starmix]

I just evaluate myself, if I am not the type of man who likes to give fake love, so even though I have many female friends but it is difficult to fall in love before finding a woman who matches the personality that I desire.

Wow, superb he he, you are a real man. How nice to meet someone with a real love, ' never be twisted and swayed by temptations he he . Lucky would be the woman of your dreams. She is just there at your work place.