Lunatic love

[Starmix]

Lunatic love describes a passionate, intense, and often irrational form of love that can feel all-consuming and overwhelming. It is characterized by heightened emotions, impulsivity, and a tendency to idealize the object of affection, often overlooking flaws or red flags.

Lunatic love can manifest as obsessive thoughts, possessiveness, and a desperate need for validation from the beloved, leading to erratic behavior. This type of love may involve taking extreme risks or making drastic life changes in the name of romance, without considering the potential consequences.

Also, lunatic love can be intoxicating and addictive, creating a euphoric high that masks underlying insecurities or emotional vulnerabilities. It often lacks a solid foundation of trust, respect, and mutual understanding, relying instead on fleeting moments of intense connection and passion. Lunatic love can be volatile and unpredictable, swinging between extreme highs of joy and devastating lows of despair, depending on the partners' cons or moods.

Further, this type of love may be fueled by fantasy and projection, where one person sees in the other qualities they desire or believe they need to feel complete. It can be unsustainable in the long term, as the intensity and instability eventually lead to exhaustion, burnout, and emotional turmoil.

Moreover, while it can be exhilarating and transformative, lunatic love often requires a willingness to confront one’s own emotional patterns and seek healthier ways of relating to others.

 

[gwolf666]

The description of what's called "lunatic love" seems very accurate to me, because it reflects a type of relationship many have experienced at some point in their lives. That mix of overwhelming passion, idealization, and a constant need for validation can feel like an emotional high, but at the same time, it's a dangerous trap. Interestingly, although it may initially seem magical and transformative, over time it tends to reveal its more destructive side: exhaustion, insecurity, and even loss of identity. I think the most valuable aspect of recognizing this pattern is that it invites us to reflect on how we connect with others and what we seek in them. Healthy love should be based on trust and respect, not obsession or dependence. Identifying the signs of lunatic love can be the first step toward building more balanced and sustainable relationships in the long run.

 

[Starmix]

Those who are trapped in a lunatic love must wake up and leave that kind of emotional turmoil. It is a disastrous kind of love. It is no longer called love but an act of insanity.

 

[eLdavis]

Most people when they are in love, they find it hard to control their actions and emotions, which often makes them seem intense and irrational.

 

[Starmix]

Most people when they are in love, they find it hard to control their actions and emotions, which often makes them seem intense and irrational.

I agree with you on that, some lovers do not have self-control and discipline. They are doing an illogical actions that could stain their reputation to the eyes and ears of the people.