Marrying someone with a horrible past

[Kirubel]

Yesh I understand your point but supposing the person have changed will you marry the person?

The hardest thing is Convincing our mind that the person is fully changed, even if we love that person our mind will keep asking like "what if the person do it again" so its hars to believe a person with bad history.

 

[SHAHID987]

Usually women don't say about her horrible past but if she told each and everything then it depends as how much horrible her past was and is it acceptable or not.

 

[Augusta]

The hardest thing is Convincing our mind that the person is fully changed, even if we love that person our mind will keep asking like "what if the person do it again" so its hars to believe a person with bad history.

Yes, you are right because you would doubt such change supposing the person is pretending. So it's not even good to have a very horrible past.

 

[Kirubel]

Yes, you are right because you would doubt such change supposing the person is pretending. So it's not even good to have a very horrible past.

Yes, its better to be a good person so that we can have a good history, and we can talk about our past without feeling a shame. Everyone have two choice to be a good person or to be a wild person.

 

[Augusta]

Yes, its better to be a good person so that we can have a good history, and we can talk about our past without feeling a shame. Everyone have two choice to be a good person or to be a wild person.

Definitely, dear friend just live a good life so that you look back with nostalgia and not in regrets

 

[Fidelia]

The hardest thing is Convincing our mind that the person is fully changed, even if we love that person our mind will keep asking like "what if the person do it again" so its hars to believe a person with bad history.

Then, you would surely get a pretender. All of us have some horrible pasts at a level. In fact, any person that doesn't marry as a virgin has a past. I don't let the past define people. I always give them a chance to rewrite their stories.

 

[Kross]

I have a dangerous mind that doesn't forget things. It is better you don't tell me about a dirty past, because it would always traumatize me.

 

[Augusta]

Then, you would surely get a pretender. All of us have some horrible pasts at a level. In fact, any person that doesn't marry as a virgin has a past. I don't let the past define people. I always give them a chance to rewrite their stories.

How about those that are adamant in their ways. Would you marry them even when they pretend to change

 

[deucher]

I think the main question would be whether he served the punishment, because if there was no such thing, then I would be alarmed, but if he served, then it is possible that he still made amends

 

[Suba]

Of course, I will never choose a future wife who has a bad past, psychologically it will have a bad impact on the children, it is different if she is only poor but has a good temperament.

 

[U30BILLIONAIRES]

I think the first think is to know if your spouse is born again, has he or she fully repented from the bad habit.

 

[Starmix]

That's insane marrying a person with a horrible past. I may not be secure with him. He might have a forever criminal minded mindset.

 

[Suba]

In Javanese tradition there are criteria when choosing a partner such as Bibit (bloodline), Bebet (socioeconomic status) and Bebet (personality and education). Even though in practice it will be very difficult to find an ideal partner, at least it will be close to the criteria.