Should a man pay his wife/ partner allowance simply for being a wife/partner?

[Kross]

Every lady in my country now are demanding monthly and allowance from the men in their lives. They say that just because they have decided to be involved in a romantic relationship or marriage with a man, they are entitled to monthly allowance.

Should I give my woman monthly allowance?

 

[gwolf666]

I think the decision to give your partner a monthly allowance depends a lot on the relationship you have and how you both view that dynamic. In my opinion, in a healthy relationship, the most important thing is communication and mutual agreement. I don't believe there's a universal obligation to give money regularly just because you're in a relationship or married. Every couple has their own circumstances and agreements, and that should be based on respect and trust. If you feel comfortable and want to support your partner with an allowance, that can be a sign of affection and commitment. But if you don't feel in a position to do so, that's fine too, as long as there's open and honest communication. The key here is that you both agree on what you decide and that it doesn't become a source of tension or conflict.

 

[Stardom22]

As of me l really don't consider paying for them yet men in my culture pay for the dowry for sure.

 

[Kera]

I won't get an allowance from my man. We would only mutually support each other financially when needs arises.

 

[Augusta]

Yes, she is humans with needs aside money to run the home. Just make sure you give us what you can readily afford

 

[eLdavis]

It depends on the partner i guess. I feel the man should be able to provide for her upkeep and all, then again both partners need to work together to support one another, not just one supporting.

 

[Min George]

I always give my woman allowance to support her. I don't give allowance that would solve all her needs.

 

[Springtime]

That is the decision of the couple. But nowadays, a lot of women go out to work as well. If she stays home as a housewife, the husband has the responsibility to take care of the household's financial situation.

 

[Kross]

That is the decision of the couple. But nowadays, a lot of women go out to work as well. If she stays home as a housewife, the husband has the responsibility to take care of the household's financial situation.

Almost every woman works and earns an income nowadays. Should the man still pay the wife allowance even when she has an income?

 

[King Belieal]

If a man can afford to pay his wife an allowance, no matter the amount, there is nothing bad about that.

 

[Augusta]

I always give my woman allowance to support her. I don't give allowance that would solve all her needs.

This is the way to go. Give her money that would still make room for self reliance and Independence

 

[Springtime]

Almost every woman works and earns an income nowadays. Should the man still pay the wife allowance even when she has an income.

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Theoretically no. But I think if the man earns much more than the woman, then depending on the couple's agreement, the man can give some allowance to his wife.

 

[Augusta]

But I think this should be complusory for housewives those not doing any work outside their homes

 

[Kross]

But I think this should be complusory for housewives those not doing any work outside their homes

If a woman is staying at home and taking care of the home/kids, she definitely deserves to be given allowance. That's more than some white collar jobs.

 

[Augusta]

If a woman is staying at home and taking care of the home/kids, she definitely deserves to be given allowance. That's more than some white collar jobs.

My point exactly. Because some people pay heavily for house keeping job. So if madam is doing all of that then she should gets some payment for it.

 

[Suba]

In my country's culture, a wife acts as the finance minister in the household. Therefore, when a husband receives his salary, almost 95% goes to his wife, with 5% covering his transportation costs. The payslip already includes wife and child support, so nothing else needs to be given to the wife.

 

[Bigshow]

I don't understand the payment that your are talking about but i do however believe a man should at least help out at home and one in a while spoil his wife not necessary meaning he is paying him

 

[Augusta]

No matter what you decide as a couple, what always matters is that a husband supports his partner.