Which should come first " pleasing yourself or pleasing others"

I will advice you please yourself first because others might not appreciate your effort towards them while some will even see it as an entitlement but you will always value what you do to yourself.
I maintain this point. I would pleased myself first but still treat others kindly as I struts along
 
True, we are the only person who cares for us, so its better to give some attention and respect for our self, everything come later the fist thing anyone should do is give respect for its self, make their self happy then we can think about others.
 
I used to try to please everyone. However, after watching a few videos on it, I am determined to break this awful behavior. It is now my turn to please myself. I must practice self-care - that is, I must take care of my entire health and well-being in order to care for others.
 
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