This might be the case in earlier days. And may still be there in rural areas or joint family set up. We had enough people in a joint family to talk and share. But in urban and nuclear set up, it's not working. I recently read a news piece where divorce was asked as couples couldn't spend time together and found communication gap.
In cities divorce has become prevalent on the plea of quality time. I really don't understand when both partners are working and have a busy life, spending time together becomes difficult. I have experienced this myself. Spending time together has to be planned. This the couples should understand.
That's true. If children suffer because of the parents fights then divorce is essential.
Regulating a marriage is very difficult for any court. We are adults and the
This is why when it comes to matters of marriages and all that one should never rush into it. Some people tend to rush into certain relationships and marriages cause they feel they are getting old or due to peer pressure.
We need to wait for the right time for the right love . We might fall to the wrong time and wrong person. It is better to plan as well as to who to settle down with. Marrying is not a contest though.
Yea but its a pity that many people don't see things like this, especially here in Africa. Most of our young ones today tend to view marriage as some sort of competition. By the time they see that their school mates are already married they get so worried and anxious.
That's very common in India. Marriages are conducted at times in a hurry fearing their son or daughter is getting old which sometimes ends up in disaster. Result is divorce.
They are treating marriage as a contest. They did not analyze that marriage is like a prison cell. You cannot escape reality once you are already there and only feel regret when marriage is a failure.
Divorced couples rarely think of the children before the separate in India. That's the reason children felt left out when their parents get divorced. They suffer from a mental set back. It's therefore better to plan children after a compatible relation develops within the partners.
I agree there. Marriage can be demanding at times. In the fast paced life with busy schedule, people tend to ignore spending time together and it soon becomes a challenge to the relationship. One has to be very clear that it can not be taken for granted. One has to give space to each together and at the same time, put their conscious effort to give time to each other.
That's true. Both partners have to understand each others needs. When anyone becomes insensible marriage fails. On the other hand when a family is not just husband and wife and has children and parents there has to some adjustment and not think selfishly.
I totally agree. Marriage involves more than just two individuals in the relationship. Two families are involved and one should put all the efforts to make it work. Children go through the worst trauma if it's a broken home. But at times, it's better for everyone to not carry it like a burden. Some relationships are beyond repair and can be really toxic. It's better for everyone including children if it is called off
