Long years of staying together does build the bridge of affection.

[Augusta]

I want the divorce to be implemented in my country to stop the sufferings of the wives battered by their husbands

Yesh, it might be a good idea but mate this same man would move to another woman marry her and start beating that one too. Then come another divorce. This is why we have high level of divorce rate now. I believe working on people through counseling would reduce wife battery and divorce rate

 

[aninditasen]

It's the people to blame because they're for a divorce, who are to blame are the Catholic priests. They're against it and convinced the Senate not to approve Divorce in the Philippines.

Divorce should be the last option but should be taken immediately where one of the partners is abusive and selfish.

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Yesh, it might be a good idea but mate this same man would move to another woman marry her and start beating that one too. Then come another divorce. This is why we have high level of divorce rate now. I believe working on people through counseling would reduce wife battery and divorce rate

People who batter their spouses have no logic. Only some stern steps can prevent them. My mother-in-law and to some extent my husband had that attitude and I had to threaten them with dire consequences they moved back but kept on grumbling and playing the victim card.

 

[Richard1998]

Absolutely yes but not in all cases because some people the more they stay together the more the love fades away

 

[Starmix]

Yesh, it might be a good idea but mate this same man would move to another woman marry her and start beating that one too. Then come another divorce. This is why we have high level of divorce rate now. I believe working on people through counseling would reduce wife battery and divorce rate

That's why before marriage, it's best to observe the behavior of the of the boyfriend or girlfriend. Though they're not showing there real attitude but it's natural could be displayed once or two and that's a hint of being a cruel husband. The girl must not decide to marry impulsively.

 

[aninditasen]

Absolutely yes but not in all cases because some people the more they stay together the more the love fades away

If one keeps harming the other love will definitely fade.

 

[Fire&Rain]

years together really do create a kind of unspoken bond. Even with arguments or little disagreements, staying side by side builds familiarity and affection that doesn’t just disappear. There’s something comforting about knowing someone has been there through thick and thin, and that kind of attachment is hard to break.

 

[arunima25]

No one is perfect and the idea of a perfect family picture or a perfect relationship is just an illusion. Everyone knows that they are not perfect and expect others to accept them the way we are. But irony is that in many relationship, one expects other to be accepting and loving, but is not willing to do the same for their partner. This can create a lot of distance and one might feel suffocated and caught. That's not a healthy relationship. A healthy relationship is where you accept each other with the flaws and work to make it work.
Unless it is toxic and abusive, every marriage should be given a fair chance to survive. With years spent together, emotional bonding strengthens.

 

[bestwriter]

Inter-dependence is the key in most cases Then there is the promise one makes - "for better or for worse" Today' s generation is able to live independently and that is one reason they decide to live apart.

 

[aninditasen]

years together really do create a kind of unspoken bond. Even with arguments or little disagreements, staying side by side builds familiarity and affection that doesn’t just disappear. There’s something comforting about knowing someone has been there through thick and thin, and that kind of attachment is hard to break.

Yes, such relationships rarely break though they may not always be compatible.

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Inter-dependence is the key in most cases Then there is the promise one makes - "for better or for worse" Today' s generation is able to live independently and that is one reason they decide to live apart.

That's right. When someone is self sufficient financially and physically they just don't want to adjust.

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No one is perfect and the idea of a perfect family picture or a perfect relationship is just an illusion. Everyone knows that they are not perfect and expect others to accept them the way we are. But irony is that in many relationship, one expects other to be accepting and loving, but is not willing to do the same for their partner. This can create a lot of distance and one might feel suffocated and caught. That's not a healthy relationship. A healthy relationship is where you accept each other with the flaws and work to make it work.
Unless it is toxic and abusive, every marriage should be given a fair chance to survive. With years spent together, emotional bonding strengthens.

That's right. Staying together for long a couple gradually adjusts with each other's way.

 

[arunima25]

While earlier generations relied on " till death do us apart", it's not the case with the current generation. The socio economic conditions are changing, moral compass is changing. Earlier, people stayed glued through thick and thin, they considered the unity to be divine and did every bit to make it work. Today's the idea of independence has become more self centred. This generation is more into convenience and they keep options open. " I deserve better" keeps coming for even the trivial issues. Moving on is easier than earlier days.

 

[aninditasen]

While earlier generations relied on " till death do us apart", it's not the case with the current generation. The socio economic conditions are changing, moral compass is changing. Earlier, people stayed glued through thick and thin, they considered the unity to be divine and did every bit to make it work. Today's the idea of independence has become more self centred. This generation is more into convenience and they keep options open. " I deserve better" keeps coming for even the trivial issues. Moving on is easier than earlier days.

That's true. Earlier it was difficult for a divorced women to live in the Indian society which is not now.

 

[bestwriter]

With the belief live and let live staying together for years becomes a happy experience.

 

[aninditasen]

With the belief live and let live staying together for years becomes a happy experience.

That's true but some couples just adjust especially the wives.

 

[bestwriter]

That's true but some couples just adjust especially the wives.

Women have the patience unlike men and they are endowed with the ability to adjust and that is how marriages last

 

[aninditasen]

Women have the patience unlike men and they are endowed with the ability to adjust and that is how marriages last

Women who are financially dependent on their husband are bound to adjust.