Well financial intelligence is necessary & essential but it is not enough for me to leave my partner after marriage because be it as it may i had an idea that she has some defects before marriage and i decided to carry on with it.
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Should you walk away from a marriage in which the partner is not financially intelligent?
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Yes, that's why we have the vow for better for worse. The worse is here you have to deal with it. So if you marry the next person and she is not a good home maker what do you do? would you divorce again?
I don't say those stupid vows that doesn't make sense. I believe that people should not limit their lives to contain another person. I am a very practical person. If a lady doesn't have financial intelligence, I ain't marrying. If I marry before discovering that weakness, I would divorce for sure and take time to find another person.
There's no way you would go to without taking the vows. So even if children are involved you just leave because of lack of financial intelligent. You need to take time now to get the right woman before venturing into marriage.
I am really taking my time. I dread poverty a lot and I wouldn't find it funny if a woman comes to drag me into it because of her financial recklessness.
I understand your point clearly. Nobody would want to wallow in poverty but you still would need to preserve your family unit against all odds. So the time to get the right person is now that you are yet to take the vows
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. If the husband is not financially intelligent, he should not be the one managing the family's finance. But he may have other strengths such as love his family, hard working. As long as he is not gambling or spending lavishly, I would take over the responsibility of managing finance and let him do other tasks.
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It's better to know each other better if the one you're about to marry is capable of handling and managing finances, if not both of you must call your relationship quits before anything bad happens like daily argument.
I think before the marriage one should understand who they get married to and the purpose of the marriage too. I like house wives for they are good at taking good care of the children and husbands at large.
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Marriage is not a contract, it is the love that consummates in marriage. If you are in love, you will never walk away from marriage in any condition.
According to my culture, marriage is something that deserves respect and not necessarily for the spouses to be rich for that matter.
